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liz anderson's avatar

Love this post. Your questions had me thinking. I realized that this past winter was more enjoyable and felt less lonesome than previous winters have.

I am a medically challenged senior who lives on my own. I am quite physically isolated during bad weather. I live in Canada and winters are long. I love my country and am so proud to be Canadian but the winters are long 🙂.

I journalled this winter and started each day writing down 5 things that I was grateful for. I focused on being kinder to myself and to others. I prayed for the children of the world and for our planet. I engaged in monthly online therapy sessions with a lovely therapist. I listened to music and danced in my apartment. I listened to Audible. I painted. I watched great movies and and enjoyed reality TV. I meditated. I cooked yummy beautiful meals for myself and sent photos of them to my daughter. I took hour long showers with beautiful shower products gifted to me by my daughter. I gave myself facials and foot soaks and hand massages and used my Happy Lights all with products and equipment gifted to me from my daughter.

I realized that I am not alone and found ways to stay connected during the isolation of winter. I changed my attitude about that stark dark quiet season. I embraced it as much as I could. I was patient with winter and with myself. Well mostly.

I focussed on what remains in my life during winter and celebrated all that I have rather than dwelling on what is gone. I remembered many wonderful times experiences and relationships from the past with family friends colleauges pets neighbours strangers as well as on my own.

I released old trauma and refocussed on how very fortunate I am. Everyday I have all that I need 💖. I was truly grateful for that this winter.

Thank you for prompting me to review and assess my winter. It was a genuinely helpful exercise ❤️

Sofy's avatar

loooove this will definitely use these prompts ✨😌❤️

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